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		<title>By: mzvirgo</title>
		<link>http://thejosevilson.com/2008/05/14/that-damn-etiquette/comment-page-1/#comment-4034</link>
		<dc:creator>mzvirgo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 15:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dare I say that I haven&#039;t been in the movies in a long time for reasons that you have stated? LOL. Other than that, there aren&#039;t any good movies anymore.

I listened to the audio of that Soulja Girl. It is disturbing. But what is more interesting is the technology we have today, to even use camera phones to record that and upload it on YouTube. Is that what it comes down to, when a crime is taking place, to reach for your camera phone and record it instead of calling 911? I wonder about that. Because stuff like that happens in New York all the time, but no one is reaching for their camera phone to record it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dare I say that I haven&#8217;t been in the movies in a long time for reasons that you have stated? LOL. Other than that, there aren&#8217;t any good movies anymore.</p>
<p>I listened to the audio of that Soulja Girl. It is disturbing. But what is more interesting is the technology we have today, to even use camera phones to record that and upload it on YouTube. Is that what it comes down to, when a crime is taking place, to reach for your camera phone and record it instead of calling 911? I wonder about that. Because stuff like that happens in New York all the time, but no one is reaching for their camera phone to record it.</p>
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		<title>By: Where are we going? &#124; When the hurly-burly's done</title>
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		<dc:creator>Where are we going? &#124; When the hurly-burly's done</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 20:06:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I read Jose Vilson, who has quickly become one of my favorite bloggers: Whether it’s at the movie theatre or my [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Amauri T.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amauri T.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 16:13:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well glad there were some consequences for that insanity. I agree that this medication stuff is overdone. Kids have been bad and loud forever, why is it only now in the 21st century that every behavior  is a syndrome requiring chemicals? Next they will want to drug the parents as well...oh wait, that is already going on.

I had a chance to interview some execs from the biggest theatre chain. Theatres make tons of cash hand over fist even with piracy, retarded prices, etc because we all need a place to go....the ONLY business problem they face is behavior, according to the execs. There must be some way to address it with technology; maybe require IDs and then start banning/suspending ppl who can&#039;t control themselves.

BTW you are all haters for shitting on Cloverfield.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well glad there were some consequences for that insanity. I agree that this medication stuff is overdone. Kids have been bad and loud forever, why is it only now in the 21st century that every behavior  is a syndrome requiring chemicals? Next they will want to drug the parents as well&#8230;oh wait, that is already going on.</p>
<p>I had a chance to interview some execs from the biggest theatre chain. Theatres make tons of cash hand over fist even with piracy, retarded prices, etc because we all need a place to go&#8230;.the ONLY business problem they face is behavior, according to the execs. There must be some way to address it with technology; maybe require IDs and then start banning/suspending ppl who can&#8217;t control themselves.</p>
<p>BTW you are all haters for shitting on Cloverfield.</p>
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		<title>By: Shelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 15:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;&gt;“Fuck that shit” is not an appropriate reaction (unless it’s Cloverfield, then go right ahead).&lt;&lt;

Lol I couldn&#039;t agree more!

Seriously though, after watching that YT video I was, like most people, shocked and horrified.  And saddened.  That young girl is obviously lost and full of rage.  This speaks to me of where we are - ALL of us - in terms of the ongoing responsibilty we have to continue working on our societal and familial structures.

As Aulelia said, there is an increasingly serious situation in the UK regarding violence, selfishness and general loss of respect.  Not just with young people but across the board.  A code of etiquette would be a good start to managing things but a much deeper communication and healing is required.  

Great post Jose, thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt;&gt;“Fuck that shit” is not an appropriate reaction (unless it’s Cloverfield, then go right ahead).&lt;&lt;</p>
<p>Lol I couldn&#8217;t agree more!</p>
<p>Seriously though, after watching that YT video I was, like most people, shocked and horrified.  And saddened.  That young girl is obviously lost and full of rage.  This speaks to me of where we are &#8211; ALL of us &#8211; in terms of the ongoing responsibilty we have to continue working on our societal and familial structures.</p>
<p>As Aulelia said, there is an increasingly serious situation in the UK regarding violence, selfishness and general loss of respect.  Not just with young people but across the board.  A code of etiquette would be a good start to managing things but a much deeper communication and healing is required.  </p>
<p>Great post Jose, thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: bygbaby</title>
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		<dc:creator>bygbaby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 15:29:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could not believe what I was seeing &amp; hearing.  What is more disturbing was that none of the older people on train did nothing.  Not sure what i would have done but damn.  When she got up &amp; dance, i was like she is unstable &amp; I&#039;m happy to see that I was not wrong &amp; her mom made her get help.

The ending was a mess.  You the dude that raped me, where my doo rag...

I may have to post this on my blog!!!

Bygbaby</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could not believe what I was seeing &amp; hearing.  What is more disturbing was that none of the older people on train did nothing.  Not sure what i would have done but damn.  When she got up &amp; dance, i was like she is unstable &amp; I&#8217;m happy to see that I was not wrong &amp; her mom made her get help.</p>
<p>The ending was a mess.  You the dude that raped me, where my doo rag&#8230;</p>
<p>I may have to post this on my blog!!!</p>
<p>Bygbaby</p>
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		<title>By: Jose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 23:37:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, I think AM definitely pointed to something I was semi-getting at, and that is, yes, she might have been mentally ill, but medications alone don&#039;t account for some children&#039;s behaviors. There was a study that showed that if you speak to many of these children that have &quot;mental issues&quot; like normal people, a lot of those problems start going away. In other words, we also need to supplement those meds with actual behavior adjustment.

aulelia, ASBOs really sound like crap, only because of the concentration on African / Black people. I don&#039;t mind some of the noise, for instance, made on the train. When it&#039;s too quiet, I start wondering what happened to that exciting NYC, and sometimes the graffiti really brings to life those dull-ass trains. Nonetheless, when I&#039;m at a movie, I&#039;d like some quiet so I can fully enjoy the movie. That&#039;s really what I&#039;m asking for, and that goes for people of all races, not just one.

J, that&#039;s real talk. I think we need to have appropriate consequences for people&#039;s acts. She&#039;s lucky she&#039;s not getting charged.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, I think AM definitely pointed to something I was semi-getting at, and that is, yes, she might have been mentally ill, but medications alone don&#8217;t account for some children&#8217;s behaviors. There was a study that showed that if you speak to many of these children that have &#8220;mental issues&#8221; like normal people, a lot of those problems start going away. In other words, we also need to supplement those meds with actual behavior adjustment.</p>
<p>aulelia, ASBOs really sound like crap, only because of the concentration on African / Black people. I don&#8217;t mind some of the noise, for instance, made on the train. When it&#8217;s too quiet, I start wondering what happened to that exciting NYC, and sometimes the graffiti really brings to life those dull-ass trains. Nonetheless, when I&#8217;m at a movie, I&#8217;d like some quiet so I can fully enjoy the movie. That&#8217;s really what I&#8217;m asking for, and that goes for people of all races, not just one.</p>
<p>J, that&#8217;s real talk. I think we need to have appropriate consequences for people&#8217;s acts. She&#8217;s lucky she&#8217;s not getting charged.</p>
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		<title>By: Ensayn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ensayn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 20:43:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Soulja Girl is mentaly ill, she turned herself in to the police at the urging of her mother.  The senior she verbally assaulted is refusing to press charges against Soulja Girl, as she says she realized the young lady was ill and didn&#039;t fear her.  Metropolitan Area Rapid Transit Authority is leaving charges to be filed by the senior but as I stated before she will not.  But, this is only one that it truely ill.  There is no excuse for the rest that act so rudely!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soulja Girl is mentaly ill, she turned herself in to the police at the urging of her mother.  The senior she verbally assaulted is refusing to press charges against Soulja Girl, as she says she realized the young lady was ill and didn&#8217;t fear her.  Metropolitan Area Rapid Transit Authority is leaving charges to be filed by the senior but as I stated before she will not.  But, this is only one that it truely ill.  There is no excuse for the rest that act so rudely!</p>
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		<title>By: AngelaMichelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>AngelaMichelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 20:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had absosmurfly no clue about this store until someone mentioned it on Twitter, and after watching the video for the first time today (thanks... I think), as well as the interview with her mother, I definitely have to say... WTHP?  I&#039;m not as aghast as most due to the child&#039;s antics, because it&#039;s clear she has psychotic issues.  In addition to that, it&#039;s clear the child has a mother who has maintained the delusion that meds alone are a cure-all for the child&#039;s disorder, and has left the child in charge of her own treatment.  This episode goes far beyond the &quot;typical&quot; rebelliousness of children.  It speaks of a failed system within that family structure to get the child the help she needed, and then unleashing her on the public at large.

and for the record, &quot;fuck that shit&quot; is way too light of a response for &quot;cloverfield&quot;.  i call for an angry mob and pitchforks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had absosmurfly no clue about this store until someone mentioned it on Twitter, and after watching the video for the first time today (thanks&#8230; I think), as well as the interview with her mother, I definitely have to say&#8230; WTHP?  I&#8217;m not as aghast as most due to the child&#8217;s antics, because it&#8217;s clear she has psychotic issues.  In addition to that, it&#8217;s clear the child has a mother who has maintained the delusion that meds alone are a cure-all for the child&#8217;s disorder, and has left the child in charge of her own treatment.  This episode goes far beyond the &#8220;typical&#8221; rebelliousness of children.  It speaks of a failed system within that family structure to get the child the help she needed, and then unleashing her on the public at large.</p>
<p>and for the record, &#8220;fuck that shit&#8221; is way too light of a response for &#8220;cloverfield&#8221;.  i call for an angry mob and pitchforks.</p>
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		<title>By: aulelia</title>
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		<dc:creator>aulelia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 14:47:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From your post, I can note a correlation between what is going on here in the UK and the US then. It seems that a lot of young people feel *entitled* to act however they want because they *want* to. It is the most ludicrous way of looking at the world quite frankly (but perhaps Mr. Bush agrees with it with his conduct). 

&quot;Code of Conduct&quot; is an excellent idea. Firstly, it would ensure that all the people who have given up £5 to go the bloody cinema get to hear all the words the actors are saying! I find it just ridiculous at the way a segment of teenagers feel like they created the pavement. 

The Anti-Social Behavioural Orders (ASBOs) was Tony Blair&#039;s attempt to deal with the supporters of noise in the street and general trouble makers here in England. However, what ASBOs did that was bad was they diluted the concept of what you were talking about how about how a village raises a child. I think that is an inherently &#039;black&#039; or &#039;african&#039; trait and with the fear of generalising across the seas, from your post, it looks like it is pretty much all but vanished. 

In today&#039;s climate where parents get murdered outside their homes for telling certain young groups of teenage boys to stop screaming and drinking cider, the etiquette you are talking about is desperately needed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From your post, I can note a correlation between what is going on here in the UK and the US then. It seems that a lot of young people feel *entitled* to act however they want because they *want* to. It is the most ludicrous way of looking at the world quite frankly (but perhaps Mr. Bush agrees with it with his conduct). </p>
<p>&#8220;Code of Conduct&#8221; is an excellent idea. Firstly, it would ensure that all the people who have given up £5 to go the bloody cinema get to hear all the words the actors are saying! I find it just ridiculous at the way a segment of teenagers feel like they created the pavement. </p>
<p>The Anti-Social Behavioural Orders (ASBOs) was Tony Blair&#8217;s attempt to deal with the supporters of noise in the street and general trouble makers here in England. However, what ASBOs did that was bad was they diluted the concept of what you were talking about how about how a village raises a child. I think that is an inherently &#8216;black&#8217; or &#8216;african&#8217; trait and with the fear of generalising across the seas, from your post, it looks like it is pretty much all but vanished. </p>
<p>In today&#8217;s climate where parents get murdered outside their homes for telling certain young groups of teenage boys to stop screaming and drinking cider, the etiquette you are talking about is desperately needed.</p>
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		<title>By: J. Dakar</title>
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		<dc:creator>J. Dakar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 02:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, was glad to hear she had been arrested. I honestly hope she gets the help she needs, but I really hope that boyfriend of hers gets an English tutor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, was glad to hear she had been arrested. I honestly hope she gets the help she needs, but I really hope that boyfriend of hers gets an English tutor.</p>
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